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Dating. The concept and purpose of dating has drastically changed, from the days of before to our current time.


When one decides to spend time with another person, they dedicate many things to the individual. First, they dedicate their time. Time is something that is irreplaceable. To choose to spend time with another individual demonstrates a great deal of respect. It should be noted and much more respected. Second, one who spends time with another individual also dedicates a level of trust. When you are one on one with an individual, you trust yourself to be in the presence of the individual. You may also trust them to share even the most basic information, such as your name.


When one is together with another, it is important to use that time to know one another. This gives both individuals the opportunity to connect with one another. For example, if two individuals were to spend their time not communicating with one another, both will still become strangers at the end of the day. Sure, both were able to spend time with one another, however they were not able to create connections with one another. When two individuals do take the time to create connections, they will surely find something that keeps them talking. Having a conversation regarding your favorite television show is bound to keep the communication going, rather than a conversation regarding the weather that is occurring.


So, you can spend time with an individual. How should one go about, in terms of dating? There are two concepts that one must learn. They are the concept of dating and the concept of hanging out.


Hanging out. This occurs when the two individuals to suddenly decide to spend time with one another. There is no prior planning to what activity the two individuals will do. There is no special activity to be performed. The two individuals are simply spending time with one another. They are with one another in order to enjoy the presence of one another.


There is nothing wrong with hanging out with an individual. Its intentions are all great! All except for once consequence. Hang outs often fade out in specialty. The more time one hang outs with another person, simply enjoying their presence, the less special that time because. Think of it, for example, like a new electronic device you buy for yourself. At first, this device is incredible! All of the software features are packed with hidden surprises, the hardware performs exceptionally well, and much more. You use this device as many times as you can! Over time, you become very familiar with this device. You have used the devices features so much, that they have only become part of your life. They are common. The hardware becomes familiar, and you may desire more! The use of this new device has become a common device. The same could be said with an individual when hanging out. You are often in the presence of this individual, with no special events or communication, creating communication that creates connections.


Instead, spend time with an individual through the concept of a date! Dates are planned by one or both of the individuals. They should involve activities that encourage communication between the two individuals. This communication, revolving back to the beginning of this blog, connects the two individuals. Both individuals can witness each other in different scenarios and how they assist one another. Such activities, such as rock climbing and hiking, are great activities for a date!


So, communicate! Make connections! Make the other individual feel special! Go out on a date!

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